Jealous? Nope.

I have to admit that in general I am not a jealous person. Even so, I catch myself sometimes thinking about some SB's past and present throughout the day. So in that respect it's not different than a real life relationship. Strange isn't it? And here I was thinking that since there is the 'sugar' aspect, every other aspect of humanity goes by the wayside. Just the other day thinking about an old sugar 'acquaintance' and wondering one evening who is she with. Would it be a 'sugar' person or a real life person. And how would that situation be different than what we had? Would it be better? or worse? or just different? It's weird but sometimes I felt I was getting attached to some SB's. Yet other times I will just dump them by the side of the Taconic without looking back.

SB's though also get carried away by emotion sometimes. For example there was this one case (she was 40). I had ignored her for a couple of days while dealing with some health and work issues, and then she flied off her handle accusing me of ignoring her and not liking this thing that we had. Good Lord! And here I was thinking we were in an NSA arrangement! Many times those lines between NSA 'sugar' and real life 'attachment' get sooo gray. Have to be careful and vigilant at all time I guess.

What would happen if they mention other SD's during one of our dates? Well, in that case I would just take it in stride, and look at it from a clinical point of view. If they made comparisons over and over I would just dump them and tell them to go back to the other SD's. There's other fish in the sea. I never bring up past SB's out of respect, and certainly don't do any comparisons at least I don't tell them about it right in their face. I did have that happen to me once actually...