Trick or Treat cont'ed

So I sent a txt message to ms. Haloween, re-introducing myself. No answer. Then, the next day I left her a voicemail saying I liked talking to her, wanted to talk more, and let's go for lunch someday. I had given up hope when, a few hours later, I get a text saying: 'Hi Mr. New York, how are you, sorry couldn't talk earlier, I work a lot'. Anyway , she said she has 3 part time jobs and gets very little free time. I said, well, "let's do lunch and talk more then". So she will text me again when she gets her lunch break so we can meet.

So, she is very busy with many jobs, so it seems she only has a little bit of time to go out.

So SB's, how do I crack this nut, and her seeming tight schedule? PLz give me advice because she is so sweet. (so far this is outside the SD/SB context).

More later...