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Sugar Daddy Diary: Escort vs Sugar Baby

Monday, October 4, 2010

Escort vs Sugar Baby

Sugar baby vs. Escorts:

This is something that many male friends have asked me in real life as well as online.

To them I say the two are totally different, and I can tell from the way that I have felt for some of these women. I have been, several times over the period of years, with escorts (in my younger days) as well as Sugar Babies.

Escorts, as they say, are paid by their client, to leave after the deed is done. SB's are 'taken care of' in hopes that they will keep coming back and provide their companionship and personality to a busy professional man who appreciates them. It is this appreciation that makes all the difference between the two types of women. I visited escorts to scratch an itch after work. But when I wanted to spend some quality time in and out bed I didn't call an escort even though they would love to have my money for a multi hour 'appointment'.

I called or texted a SB I was seeing and felt like I was on a real date. And, you know, it was a real date. I put aside, in my mind, the arrangement part, and spend several hours with someone I liked. And someone who is not a 'clock watcher' like and escort would be. So it is all of the above that sets the SB apart from the escort, even though like a friend of mine said 'hey it's all sex for money in the end'. To that I answered 'you couldn't be more simplistic and wrong'

4 Comments:

Blogger Caribbean Princess said...

I simply ***heart**** your blogs.

October 4, 2010 at 8:27 PM  
Blogger SD Guru said...

I wrote about this topic in "Evolution of a SD" in my blog. For some SB and escorts are similar, for others they can clearly see the difference. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and that's ok.

October 8, 2010 at 1:19 PM  
Blogger Aureana Sugar said...

Good call. Recently me and a SB were talking about the arrangement we're seeking and he expected me to be an escort who he could call anytime he wants and I must be there,$3000 a month...NO.

October 15, 2010 at 11:00 AM  
Blogger Carrie Hillcrest said...

Hello! The lovely Takelia (http://sugababyintraining.blogspot.com) pointed me to your blog. The perspectives from the sugar world are largely new to me. Your writing is detailed and interesting, and although you have apparently retired from this realm, I'm glad your older posts remain.

Reading this post and others like it -- what differentiates a SB from an escort seems to be a popular topic/point of contention -- is both intriguing and uncomfortable to me. Intriguing because it's always kind of tantalizing to read (somewhat) outside perspectives, uncomfortable because the perspectives aren't always the most flattering. ;)

Perhaps it's because, like other ladies in a similar line of work, my time comes with an explicitly defined price tag, and for so many that probably smacks of a wham-bam, emotionless, he's-an-ATM approach. That makes me uncomfortable because I DO screen for compatibility and mutual chemistry, and I strongly prefer seeing fewer individuals for longer periods of time. Just because you can afford the ticket, doesn't mean you get to ride all the rides in the amusement park, so to speak. ;)

Of course, I'm repeatedly reminded -- sometimes as a compliment, sometimes as a thinly veiled insult, haha -- that I'm not typical in my approach. So, I can't really argue with anything you've stated!

Anyway, definitions and labels aside, great post, and I hope you continue writing regardless of your involvement in Candy Land.

November 10, 2010 at 8:47 PM  

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