You can tell the difference between a 22 and a 30+ y.o. SB. Obviously the younger person is still finding herself in many ways: she is still trying to see what she likes and does not like in men, how she likes to be treated in and out of the bedroom, how close can she get to a specific type of man. The older one, has learned to take certain situations just for the fun of it, and not try to analyze and overemphasize the importance of situations: i.e she knows to go with the flow, and she knows that outside of marriage or serious long term relationships, all else is just 'stuff'.
Still trying to think which one would be the best SB: a 22 y.o. or a 35 y.o. It's an ongoing comparison....
The 22 y.o. would have a harder body obviously. But then again, the 35 y.o. with some wrinkes or lines starting to form on her face would be so warm and sexy, I just couldn't resist that. You know what? I think a 30 y.o. , maybe a single mother (so she has lots of experience with life), but also with a hard bod due to exercise would be the perfect situation. Keri comes to mind. She fills all the criteria above. Too bad I met her after I became burned out by this SD/SB situation thing. I wonder what it would have been like had I met her a year earlier.