Me: lets go to this wine tasing, i get buzzed pretty quick, so maybe you can have you way with me.

Her: I didn't think you would need to get drunk to let me have my way with you, or do you?

Personally I like to be in control of all my senses..with any activity, ha ha

Me: of course I dont need to be drunk!

Her: so, i was thinking, we could try what you had mentioned when we met, but i just won't ask for anything... you'll just have to bone up on your listening skills. hahaha! is it too late to take you up on that offer? all the perks of a relationship without the hasle.haha! just pretend you are a really giving "boyfriend". better rules and definitions can be discused over wine if you r interested.