Why do SD's poof?

Or SB's for that matter.

1. SD's

Their wife found out
They got a better deal elsewhere
They had a change of heart
They just got tired of the SB
They realized that SD lifestyle is not for them: maybe it costs them too much money that they don't have or they just didn't realize at first what the word 'sugar' refers to. This one actually happens pretty often.

2 SB's
SD was too ugly, smelled bad, or had missing teeth
SD lied about his age or financial status (happens all the time)
They had a change of heart
They didn't realize what the word 'sugar' really means, he he he
They got a better deal elsewhere
They just wanted to try this sugar thing just once, to be able to say they fulfilled their curiosity
Maybe they are scammers: they got what they wanted, they leave and move on to the next victim
Some are just way too young, and they just flake. I remember flaking on some dates at that age to, so no hard feelings

SB's feel free to add more. I will add as I think of them

Who was it finally?

That cryptic text I had received a week ago at 1AM from someone that wasn't signed, and of course I had deleted her phone #. So I have been twisting my brain for the past week or so trying to figure to who that was, and I finally did it.

First, narrowed it down by area code. From memory, a bunch of names came up. Then, I figured it was have been someone I left a good impression on. Yes, it's true there are still some people out there that like me.
The time stamp of the text (1AM) threw me off. I figured it was someone single, and not a single mom. But, as it turned out it was indeed a single mom.
Anyway, then I remembered I had not deleted the phone # from the 'received calls' section of my sugar phone. So I found that phone number, and the day she called to confirm she was on her way to meet for our date. So I remember who it was, my old 'friend' Issy. And let me say I was somewhat surprised because when I told her I was getting out of the sugar thing, she called me a jerk. But here we are a month or so later, she texts.

So today I texted her, and she asked how my wife was ! I said 'she is doing fine'.
And then she said If feel naughty I should call her. wow.