Expectations

What do sugar daddies expect from the arrangement? Well, in summary, sex. And that's it. And also companionship from another woman, that may remind them of their younger, dating days, before they got married and settled down. Depending on how compassionate they are as people, they may also enjoy giving professional advice or 'a break' to someone who is younger and just starting out their careers. I remember giving financial advice to some sugar babies, who didn't know what to do with their paycheck. I think they appreciated the fact that I cared enough to give them advice that I did not have to give them. But financial education is not taught at schools so when I saw they just did not have the background to make certain financial decisions, I had to step in and tell them how it is, at least in a basic sense.

In another case, I steered her clear of a scam she almost put her own money into. In yet another case, I gave her the contact information of a headhunter that I thought could help her in her job hunt. In a couple of cases, I fell emotionally for the sugar babies.
But it's funny. Some sugar babies have the impression that this is a charity type of arrangement. I had one that said (in one one our first emails) she will do nothing for me in return. She just wanted cash, gifts, advice etc, just like that, for free. I wonder what planet she came from. If you can find someone to just do free stuff for you, either marry them , or build a statue of them so you can pray to it every morning. In my personal experience, no one did anything for me, that was not a relative of mine.

In addition, I met a SB on a casual, friendly date, and she was telling me stories about the various SD's she was meeting, and just dragging them along for months, without doing anything for them. She would just convince them to give her gifts (cash, designer clothing items, pay her rent etc) yet she would not as much as I give them a passionate good night kiss. So I ask the reader, what would you do with someone like that? After all these arrangements are supposed to be mutually beneficial. I suppose if she can get away with it repeatedly, no one can blame her. She just keeps meeting suckers who fall for the oldest trick in the book. That is why SD David likes to be cautious. And what do I like to get out of an arrangement? I like to get a passionate, short term, NSA affair, preferable with someone there is a basic chemistry with. I like having an attractive woman next to me, flirting, enjoying each other's company like I sued to do when I was a young person and first met my wife, for example. Those were among the greatest memories of my life (aside from great trades in my professional life) and I just like to re-live them as much as I can.