What do people outside sugar think about all this

Good question. As far as I know they would disapprove. If you are an SB, say in your twenties, what would your momma think if she found out? She would probably not be too thrilled. I know if my old fashioned momma found out she would shoot me (my father too). My brother would be giving me this sly smile, but then he would think I am crazy, and that sugar is too risky for a married professional with a family. So I think that sums it up quite well. Our family and relatives would not like it, but our friends would probably not care too much, other than give out an embarrassed giggle.

If you are an SB, for safety reasons alone you would need to share your secret with at least one trusted friend, so she/he would know your whereabouts. So you would need to 'come out of the closet' so to speak. So you need to develop a pretty thick skin, in order to deal with other opinions about this lifestyle we have all chosen.

If you are an SD you probably don't need to tell anyone, as you would not have the same concerns about your physical safety as a young woman would. I have not told a soul about this. I hinted to my brother, casually once, and he said he would never be caught dead doing this, for safety and std reasons. I think he is a bit more paranoid than me, if that's at all possible. So after that discussion I dropped it. It's kinda interesting living with a secret anyway, no harm done. So I just have this blog then to share my secrets with, lol.

I would be very interested in hearing other SB and SD opinions about this